佛法中求姻缘的原理与方法 (豆瓣 念观世音菩萨求姻缘方法汇集小组)

{"blocks":[{"key":"f19ar","text":"","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"acnn4","text":" ","type":"atomic","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":1,"key":0}],"data":{}},{"key":"3g08t","text":"","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"27rp9","text":" 　　求姻缘的原理与方法 \n","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"eo0a1","text":"　　自古以来，爱情都是一个永恒的话题，美好的姻缘总让人向往。然而似乎只有得不到的东西才是最美的，很多人苦苦追寻，却得不到自己想要的结果。 \n","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"bhu52","text":"　　所谓“男大当婚，女大当嫁”。古人在“父母之命，媒妁之言”的环境下成婚，虽说缺少自由选择的权利，然而大多数还是能和睦相处，少有家庭矛盾等事发生。现代提倡自由婚恋，但很多人却得不到幸福的婚姻。我们是否应该反思一下，问题出在哪里呢?很多大龄未婚青年和离婚者，都在为婚姻而苦恼。就像所谓的“围城”一样，有人想进来，有人想出去，进退之间到底该如何去把握?怎样才能得到如意的爱情与婚姻呢?下面将从佛法的立场来分析一下。纯属个人见解，仅供参考。 \n","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"3bnql","text":"　　先来看一个耐人寻味的故事：【从前有个书生，和未婚妻约好在某年某月某日结婚。到那一天，未婚妻却嫁给了别人。书生受此打击，一病不起。家人用尽各种办法都无能为力，眼看奄奄一息。这时，路过一位僧人，得知情况，决定点化一下他。僧人到他床前，从怀里摸出一面镜子叫书生看。 \n","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"c3b8m","text":"　　书生看到茫茫大海，一名遇害的女子一丝不挂地躺在海滩上。路过一人，看一眼，摇摇头走了.... 又路过一人，将衣服脱下，给女尸盖上，走了.... 再路过一人，过去，挖个坑，小心翼翼把尸体掩埋了............ \n","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"4m7od","text":"　　疑惑间，镜子里面画面切换。书生看到自己的未婚妻。洞房花烛，被她丈夫掀起盖头的瞬间，书生不明所以。 \n","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"aib42","text":"　　僧人解释道：那具海滩上的女尸，就是你未婚妻的前世，你是第二个路过的人，曾给过她一件衣服。她今生和你相恋，只为还你一个情。但是她最终要报答一世的人，是最后那个把她掩埋的人，那人就是他现在的丈夫。书生大悟，猛地从床上坐起，不药而愈!】 \n","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"fc10j","text":"　　可见夫妻是前世所结之缘，所谓“夫妻是前缘，善缘，恶缘，无缘不聚”。俗话说：“百世修来同船渡，千世修来共枕眠”。既然夫妻都是有缘而来，那求如意眷属的方法当然是广结“善缘”了。如果今生姻缘不如意，先要忏悔改过，重新广结善缘，尚有希望此生再遇良缘。 \n","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"63ckk","text":"　　那么该何从做起呢?所谓“行有不得，反求诸己”。先反省一下自己有哪些原因导致婚姻不顺，然后忏悔改过。现代由于不良的社会风气影响，导致很多人对爱情和婚姻的认识有偏差，从而做出很多障碍姻缘的行为。现举例数种，让大家参考参考，有则改之，无则警惕，则美满姻缘不求自来也。 \n ","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}}],"entityMap":{"0":{"type":"IMAGE","mutability":"IMMUTABLE","data":{"width":500,"thumb":"https://img1.doubanio.com/view/group_topic/small/public/p176801247.jpg","file_size":231544,"url":"https://img1.doubanio.com/view/group_topic/l/public/p176801247.jpg","file_name":"微信图片_20180611203102.jpg","is_animated":false,"id":"176801247","height":400,"entityKey":"1","src":"https://img1.doubanio.com/view/group_topic/l/public/p176801247.jpg"}}}}